Thursday 14 August 2008

How to become a master of seduction?

Knowing how to seduce women doesn't come naturally for many men. In fact, it takes lots
of practice. So how do you get practice?
In many cultures, having an ability to seduce any woman is considered an art. When a man
has this ability this wakes emotions in women which if controlled carefully can lead to a
long term relationship.
Most men leave the powers of attraction to their natural abilities, hoping that what they
have to offer will be enough. However, as with any art form, practice makes the results
much more predictable and constant. In order to become a master of seduction, here are a
few hints and tips that you can use:
Make the woman emotionally excited. Friendly chit chat will not make any woman
emotionally excited enough to be seduced. Therefore, when the conversations start with
“You are so beautiful. What is your name? Can I buy you a drink?” this often leads to a
very fast conclusion to the conversation. Of course, you can still use the above
phrases, but the effectiveness of them is minimal. If you want to be effective, then make
her feel something emotionally. For example:
1. Share her emotions with her. Lead her to a conversation where she will tell you about
things that matter to her. Do not make the mistake of changing the subject to yourself or
asking lots of closed questions. Put yourself in her shoes, feel what she feels and carry
on the conversation on her wavelength. For example, if she starts mentioning her previous
relationship make the first step towards her emotions and say something along the
following lines: “So, you fell in love with him so deeply that you could look into his
eyes all day long. It’s a pity that this innocent feeling of first love stays so far in
the past. Do you think you can ever feel the same way again?”
2. Be seductive. A lot of “nice guys” are capable of being on the same emotional
wavelength as a woman. However, they also fall into the trap of being “just a friend”. In
order to avoid the “friends only” zone, you need to be seductive and the easiest way to
do this is to bring some sexiness into your conversations, while still projecting an
emotional connection to the woman. A correct balance of the two will allow you to attract
a woman, understand her and avoid the “friends only” zone.

Here is how you do that: do not break eye contact while talking to her; build up the
physical contact with her (it may start off with careful pat and develop into a touch of
the hands); use the speed of the conversation to let her know that you find her
attractive and flirt with her when appropriate. Try and develop a sexual tension between
the two of you – she will feel this as well. However, do not hurry the process, you need
to establish the emotional contact with her
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