Habits Women Hate

It’s worth remembering that no human being is perfect and every person has bad habits that they indulge in, that’s what makes us the diverse and wonderful set of people that we all are…
Imagine you have met a lovely girl. However, sooner or later she will definitely start making attempts to rebuild you according to her idea of a perfect man. In this case two scenarios are possible:
1) If you are deeply in love with her you have to find out which of your habits irritate her and try to get rid of them.
2) Another way is to stand your ground and to persuade her that you are a fantastic person with your own habits. Remember that when you want to correct a problem or smooth a situation in a relationship, you should get the facts straight so that you can present your case accurately.

Anyway, lets go back to the worst habits which drive women crazy. Do you remember where you left your socks yesterday before going to bed. Perhaps you put them under the chair or somewhere in a dark corner? The problem of dirty socks as well as that of unclosed packs of toothpaste in the bathroom is very common among men. These two problems are rated as the top men’s habits most hated by women.
Now let’s have a look at the following story. You are walking down the street together with your girlfriend and suddenly a beautiful girl passes by and you can’t help looking back at her. Women often cannot understand that it is men’s nature to admire beauty, so as a man you have to be very wary.
There are many more habits that may be either good or bad from a woman’s point of view. For instance, some women prefer their partners to smoke because they consider this habit adds masculinity. Conversely some women hate the habit and the scent of tobacco.
The same thing is true about alcohol. The majority of women hate their partners drinking but most also do not mind men who drink to moderation.
Each of your habits (from the way you dress to the way you speak or move) can be seen by a woman as bad. If you’re not careful these bad habits can indicate a lack of commitment on your part and a lacking of care from yourself in making her feel happy about the relationship. As such, they’re all on your woman’s most hated habits list!

Why some things are more important for women than for men?

Every person has a lot of habits and many of them appear in the early years of life. Some people like milk and others prefer water, some like ironed clothes and others hate them. We live with these habits and even don’t imagine that other people can’t stand the things which are common for us. This matter becomes a real problem when a couple gets married as different things which you are used to doing seem ridiculous to your partner.

If we ask women what things irritate them in their husbands most of all, we will hear relatively the same: dirty socks somewhere on the floor, dirty dishes in the living room, clothes spread over the flat and so on. It’s almost impossible to stop men doing things like that. But why is it so?

As a matter of fact men do not care much about the house chores, because it doesn’t seem important for them. When a man is at home after a hard working day, the only thing he wants is to watch TV, listen to music or read a newspaper. He is tired and he cannot think about such silly things as where he should put his socks. On the other hand women cannot close their eyes at such disorder in the house.

How can husbands change this situation? The first thing they should understand is that their wives are not their mothers or babysitters, but sometimes they have to take care of men as if they are children. The house for a woman is her castle and everything should be in order, that’s why she does her best to make it look tidy. Men have a nasty habit of spoiling this!

In regard to man’s nature he cannot force himself to make such matters important for himself but he can understand why they are important for a woman. If there is a desire to live in peace with your wife, the best way is to understand and to consider everything from her perspective at all times.

The Role of Music In Romance

Music… Have you ever thought of the role music plays in your life and what is it about music that melts hearts and brings people together in celebration?
You can ask anyone what their favorite songs are and regardless of age, gender, cultural background or social status you’ll always get an answer. Indeed, music plays a large part in both courtship and activities that promote social unity across multiple cultures and geographies.
Even the scientists have given attention to such a topic as “The Role of Music in Romance”. The conclusion is the following: skills like musical ability are an attraction mechanism.
But what about musical taste and compatibility? He prefers Billie Joe Armstrong to Billie Holiday whereas she’d rather laugh with Jack Black than rock with Jack White! Can these two people stay tuned to the same station, or will their different musical interests introduce too much tension?
Psychologists say: ”Sharing a similar approach to processing new information will likely prove much more important to long-term satisfaction than whether the specific foci of interests are similar”. In other words if your Beatles-loving girlfriend doesn’t like the new Coldplay album then as long as you share the same general interest in music and the desire to learn, in this case both your relationship and music collection will be enriched.
No one will deny that music is just another language and is used to communicate interest during courtship, equal to verbal and nonverbal communication. It is a powerful tool to put words and sounds to our own emotions and allows us to understand how each other is thinking or feeling.