What to wear and How to wear

No one will deny that when a woman meets a man for the first time, the main thing that attracts us is his appearance. Even those with the kindest soul and greatest intellect unfortunately go unnoticed at first. If a man appears scruffy he will most likely not have a chance to prove to a woman all of his finest qualities. So what is the key to being attractive to a woman?

1) The main thing is that he should look neat and tidy. So don’t forget to shave and groom regularly. Look after your clothes and wardrobe, but don’t go overboard.

2) Remember that the “suit should fit”. You can have the right clothes but if they are too tight or too loose you project a poor image to the fairer sex.

3) If you wear a tie, try to blend the colors carefully with the shirt. Experiment with colors, but keep it tasteful.

4) All underwear should match!

5) Wear only a high-quality elegant watch. It looks as right with jeans as it does with your best suit. Remember that a watch is not a means to know the time but a style accessory.

6) Choose the appropriate color. Remember that light colors are better for summer and dark colors for winter. Chose colors that enhance your skin and eye color around the face in order not to look as if you haven’t slept the previous night.

7) One of the first things people notice when meeting you for the first time are your shoes. Would you like women to think you are sloppy and careless? Find the time to ensure your shoes look clean, stylish and properly shined at all times.

8) If you wear spectacles chose them according to your face. They can give you a stylish and intelligent appearance as well as spoil your whole image.

Remember that if you can add a charming smile to your elegant image, any woman will be impressed.

How to avoid the “emergency phone call” from her friends during your date?

We all have been in this scenario. We meet a girl, take her out and at the end of the dinner she gets a phone call and runs off, claiming that her friend just had an emergency and she needs to go off and help. We also know what that means – we will never see the girl again. If we do, it will be by accident and the conversation will be very short and uncomfortable.

In order to avoid these scenarios, we need to break down the whole date and understand where the girl’s decision to dump you comes from.

Starting from the beginning, you could have met her by accident, either in a public place or on a blind date. On your first meeting she indicated that she likes you and naturally you want to show off and therefore you invite her somewhere special. But you do not choose somewhere down to earth, rather you take her to an expensive café or restaurant. You chat, you laugh and it seems like you are forming a bond so you take it further and order something even more expensive, present her with some kind of surprise etc. However, it is then when the phone call comes through and she runs off leaving you with a large bill and no hope of seeing her again. You feel disappointed and out of pocket Now, if you want to know why she did that, you should look at yourself first rather than try to justify her reasons. You feel disappointed because you were expecting something, but why would you expect something? You have just met and both of you have the right to change your minds about each other. You also feel disappointed because you spent a lot of money trying to prove that you are macho. Well, if you were going to buy someone, then why did not you just tell her that. Instead, you were buying someone who was not prepared to be sold, so as far as she was concerned she still had the right to change her mind. That’s why you feel disappointed and cheated.

The reason why she left is because sometime during the dinner (or even earlier) she changed her mind. If you were not so consumed in trying to impress you would have noticed that. However, you did not and she did not know how to tell you. In order to avoid an uncomfortable situation she goes along with your plan but then starts to think of ways out that will not hurt your feelings. The emergency phone call seems to be the best solution, so she activates it at the end of the night.
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How to become a master of seduction?

Knowing how to seduce women doesn't come naturally for many men. In fact, it takes lots
of practice. So how do you get practice?
In many cultures, having an ability to seduce any woman is considered an art. When a man
has this ability this wakes emotions in women which if controlled carefully can lead to a
long term relationship.
Most men leave the powers of attraction to their natural abilities, hoping that what they
have to offer will be enough. However, as with any art form, practice makes the results
much more predictable and constant. In order to become a master of seduction, here are a
few hints and tips that you can use:
Make the woman emotionally excited. Friendly chit chat will not make any woman
emotionally excited enough to be seduced. Therefore, when the conversations start with
“You are so beautiful. What is your name? Can I buy you a drink?” this often leads to a
very fast conclusion to the conversation. Of course, you can still use the above
phrases, but the effectiveness of them is minimal. If you want to be effective, then make
her feel something emotionally. For example:
1. Share her emotions with her. Lead her to a conversation where she will tell you about
things that matter to her. Do not make the mistake of changing the subject to yourself or
asking lots of closed questions. Put yourself in her shoes, feel what she feels and carry
on the conversation on her wavelength. For example, if she starts mentioning her previous
relationship make the first step towards her emotions and say something along the
following lines: “So, you fell in love with him so deeply that you could look into his
eyes all day long. It’s a pity that this innocent feeling of first love stays so far in
the past. Do you think you can ever feel the same way again?”
2. Be seductive. A lot of “nice guys” are capable of being on the same emotional
wavelength as a woman. However, they also fall into the trap of being “just a friend”. In
order to avoid the “friends only” zone, you need to be seductive and the easiest way to
do this is to bring some sexiness into your conversations, while still projecting an
emotional connection to the woman. A correct balance of the two will allow you to attract
a woman, understand her and avoid the “friends only” zone.

Here is how you do that: do not break eye contact while talking to her; build up the
physical contact with her (it may start off with careful pat and develop into a touch of
the hands); use the speed of the conversation to let her know that you find her
attractive and flirt with her when appropriate. Try and develop a sexual tension between
the two of you – she will feel this as well. However, do not hurry the process, you need
to establish the emotional contact with her
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How to attract a hard to get woman

How to attract a “hard-to-get lady”?

We live in a world containing a lot of different types of women. For now, let’s look at the “serious, professional and stylish” ladies, as they are often the hardest to get. Most of the time these ladies are very beautiful, well-dressed and very focused. When approached they are not very talkative, act distant, do not react to your smiling face and dislike short talk. If you ask them a question, in most cases you will get a short polite answer that will leave you very little room to carry on with the conversation.

Nothing is impossible in romance, even seducing the most “hard-to-get” ladies. It is important to remember that success is 90% attitude and 10% technique. Therefore, the first thing to build is your attitude, as with the correct attitude you can seduce any woman.

When you approach a “hard-to-get” woman, you need to bear in mind that she will not want to communicate with a stranger. Furthermore, she will judge people very quickly and decide whether she wants to talk to them. This judgement can be based on a large number of criteria: clothes, style, hair, approach, posture, shoe colour, good looks, physique etc. In order to approach such a woman in a public place you need to find an original approach, something that others have not thought of which will surprise her and break the icy barrier. If you use a general approach she will have her full defences up and she will not let you get past the first few sentences. Whatever you say to her, remember to stay calm and portray confidence in your voice. …more
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